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The Kindness Method of Leadership at Christmas

  • STUART ELLIOTT

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Stuart Elliott

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The Kindness Method of Leadership at Christmas

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  • Employees who feel cared for are 70% more likely to go the extra mile.
  • 91% of employees with supportive leaders’ report feeling safe to innovate.
  • Embedding kindness into operations outperform on nearly every metric.

 

As another Christmas rolls around Ebenezer Scrooge, literature’s greatest example of a leader transformed, comes to mind. In A Christmas Carol, Scrooge learns that a leader’s strength isn’t found in authoritarianism or control, but in kindness, generosity and genuine connection.

His change of heart, and action, made him wiser and more trusted. When deadlines and targets can crowd out compassion, kindness can be one of leadership’s greatest strengths. Here are five meaningful ways kindness is a real source of strength in your own workplace, especially as one year ends and another begins.

A Kind Leadership Style Builds Psychological Safety

A kindness based leadership style is about being consistent, respectful, present, and human. When leaders listen without judgment, openly thank people for their contribution, or show empathy during stressful periods, they create psychological safety. In turn, psychological safety is the foundation of trust.

Teams that feel safe speak up, experiment, raise concerns early, and share ideas without fear of embarrassment or retaliation.

Across Southeast Asia, workplaces where leaders consistently demonstrate care see markedly stronger trust and psychological safety. At the Best Workplaces in Asia, 91 per cent of employees say colleagues care for each other, compared with just 65 per cent in a typical workplace, and 90 per cent say people are willing to give extra effort for their company when that care is present.

At a time of year when people are stretched thin, balancing work, family, financial pressure and fatigue, a leader’s kindness can be the difference between burning out or feeling supported.

Kindness Fuels Innovation

Innovation doesn’t happen in environments ruled by fear or ego. It thrives where people feel valued, included and trusted. Kindness from leaders, taking time to ask, “What do you think?” acknowledging someone’s strengths, or giving people credit publicly, opens the door for creativity.

Our research shows organizations with “visible, supportive, and responsive leadership” experience greater willingness among employees to “share new ideas and try new approaches”.

When employees believe their ideas are going to be received with openness, they’re far more willing to take thoughtful risks. In the lead-up to Christmas, when many teams are planning and setting goals for the new year, kindness becomes the spark that encourages fresh thinking and ambitious new solutions.

Kindness Leadership Inspires People to Go the Extra Mile

When leaders treat people with dignity and understanding, employees naturally reciprocate with loyalty and discretionary effort. Not because they are pressured to, but because they want to. As the year wraps up, many businesses rely on goodwill to meet final deadlines, cover extra shifts or deliver on year-end commitments.

Great Place to Work® best-practice data shows that cultures grounded in kindness create workforces “prepared to step up out of respect for leaders who have shown care.”

At Capital One Philippines, expanded remote work options allow employees to relocate while maintaining salary parity, signalling deep trust and care for people’s personal circumstances and family needs. Pontiac Land Group’s ‘HEART Blessings’ program in Singapore enables employees to nominate colleagues in need for financial and practical support during hospitalisation, job loss, or family challenges, reinforcing a culture where people step up for one another. A culture grounded in kindness creates a workforce prepared to step up, not out of obligation, but out of respect for leaders who have consistently shown care.

Kindness Strengthens Collaboration

Workplaces are ecosystems of different personalities, stressors, strengths and pressures. Kindness acts as a social glue. Leaders who model patience, curiosity and generosity set a behavioural standard that others follow. Friction reduces. Conflict becomes healthier.

Certified companies across Asia, such as Salesforce in Singapore and Vietnam, Capital One Philippines, and Fashion Garments Ltd in Vietnam, invest in peer support, paid volunteer time, scholarships for employees’ children, and flexible work arrangements to build cross‑team connection and reduce isolation.

During the busy festive season when workloads spike and emotions can run high, kindness stabilizes teams and enables them to work constructively and positively with each other.

Kindness Has Tangible Business Benefits

Kindness shows up in hard metrics like engagement, retention, productivity, customer experience and innovation outcomes, too. Trust increases, turnover decreases and problems are often solved earlier and faster.

Across Southeast Asia, Great Place To Work research shows that organisations where employees feel their colleagues care for one another see significantly higher engagement and willingness to give extra effort, with 90% of employees at the Best Workplaces in Asia saying people go above and beyond for their company.

As Christmas draws near, leaders have a timely reminder in Scrooge’s transformation: kindness doesn’t diminish authority. His generosity didn’t weaken his business but strengthened every relationship around it.

Choosing empathy over ego and presence over pressure is a strategic act of leadership. And may be the best gift you can give your people this Christmas.

Stuart Elliot, Director of Consulting, Great Place To Work

  • STUART ELLIOTT

    Stuart is a highly experienced strategic Human Resources professional who promotes organisational change to transform people, drive performance and deliver sustained value. Holding roles in both business and human resources at executive and general management level, Stuart has spent significant parts of his working career in some of Australia’s largest and most well-known banks and held roles across HR, change management, institutional banking and strategic management. With expertise in areas such as understanding and driving organisational culture change and preparing for the future of work as well as Enterprise and Strategic Workforce Planning Stuart joins the Great Place To Work Australia team as our leading Strategic People Consultant to work with clients across Australia improving employee experience and engagement – and living out our mission – of making every workplace a great place to work for all.